I did learn half of my mean language by listening to people expressing themselves for how they feel when they know I'm a lesbian. Some people are very hateful and go to the extremes just shy of direct violence. Some have perfect verbal violence at hand. I have been called a jewish slut worth to be burnt by an elderly woman, I have been called a genetically monster. I have been called fuel for hell. But the most cruel acts of hate were always when they attacked my girlfriend. On the larger scale of violence by society the methods a society uses and treats it's outsiders and lets them know they are scum and dirt is to make you vulnerable in public, at day and night. That you rightfully are a victim. That you are only entitled to fear.