To me if I don't see it, I won't know it exists, so that one. Absence doesn't make my heart grow fonder, I move on to the next thing.

Probably the former. A couple of weeks ago I got a friend request and a message on Instagram from someone claiming to know me. He invited me to his wedding sending me an screenshot of his wedding card! I mean I honestly have no idea who he is. I didn't accept his request.

It depends on the impact they caused in my life. But it's mostly the former. Extremely long absences turns into inexistence in many cases. I can only stand the pain for so long....call it survival.

Yes. All of those.

My ex is pregnant and in her 8th month now. I am a break my heart type of person even when she is so far away physically and mentally and in my mind.

Mostly the former

Definitely door number 2, I will get attached to a MFer