Arman asked about 2 months ago · 12 answers

[Hot take on why men don't like promiscuous women] "As a women if you get pregnant, you know for a fact that child is yours. But if that women slept with other men, you cannot guarantee paternity. I know in the past 40 years it's possible through DNA tests but that doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolution and biology." Thoughts? Counterarguments?

Sounds a bit reaching. I think it has more to do with the fact that, sexually/romantically, men play the role of contestant vying for sex/love, while women play the role of selector granting or denying it. Also men are more driven by desire for sex with hot women, while women are more driven by the desire for love and security. So of course men would have sex with 150 women if they could, but for a woman to do that is unnatural. And these roles are products of evolution, so evolutionary psychology applies to this explanation too. It sounds like I'm slut shaming in my argument, but I'm not. IDGAF if women are promiscuous. I actually like the fact that there are sluts.

Maybe more to the point than it being "unnatural," men are emotionally used to and invested in chasing women. When a woman is easy to get, that kind of "short-circuits" that drive, it just feels too easy, but it creates an emotional conflict because why wouldn't you take advantage of it to get what you want? So the resort is to see the woman as "dirty" and/or immoral.