Curious question! I don't know if I can answer it exactly as worded, but I think what I'm not getting to do with the subjects I have is, like, tech kinky computery stuff? It'd be nice to have a subject I felt like I could really really lean into for that, where that's the main thing we do together. That and having them around in person.

That said, it's more important to me that I get along with the subject than we do the kink stuff I'm after, and I'm about to go on holiday for two months anyway so I definitely won't be able to take on anyone new. Maybe after that!