Kate Matsuda · 8 answers · 1y

How would you ask a girl out you're interested in? Pick-up line? Just asking? Squeezing her under your arm and wrestle her to a date?

Do you want to (some activity/place we both have interest in based on previous conversation) with me? No? Ok have a nice day.

Usually on a dating site, so it's more acceptable. Even on those, though, I don't really ask them out - I just try to start conversation. It never lasts long. I've never asked a girl out in person, too shy. I asked one girl out on Facebook by saying, "maybe we should hang out sometime." She kinda likes me and we have a little bit of history. She hasn't responded, though. Another time I messaged her she responded months later.

I don't ask out girls that I'm interested in because I don't date and don't want to date.

I'm so bad at socializing with people that I probably end up asking my friends to set me up with someone! More importantly, I need to be around more people, especially girls, so that there is a chance of sparking a romantic relationship or whatever.

I tattooed 'hey you wanna go out?' on my arm and just roll up the sleeve when it's time 🤡 really I just kinda use the direct approach, I prefer to suggest a specific thing to do rather than just asking for her number - like if we're talking about the duck boats or indoor skydiving or whatever I'll ask if she wants to join me some time

I like to be direct, but there are circumstances where the latter might be more appropriate

I suppose that I would just her out on a very casual date at first. Perhaps coffee or lunch and maybe a walk somewhere pretty. No pressure while we get to know each other.

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