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Sleet · 15 answers · 9mo

˗ˏˋ 🌊 ࿐࿔ R ⁺ S QOTD ⸝⸝⸝ #8
₊˚⊹ — how often, and how openly do you defend your friends?

most would say they do pretty often, and pretty openly, I’m sure. But on here (retrospring) I think it’s alright to admit its just a little bit more complicated; when defending, or even openly supporting your friend(s) can get you dragged just as bad as them, if not worse, (typically no matter how bad the offending behaviour is)— is it really worth going out of your way to show your support?

what would it take for you to go to the next level? if you currently don’t openly show support, what would it take for you to do so? or if you do, but wouldn’t if it got you in trouble, what exactly what it take for you to feel the importance in the situation, leading you to think you have no choice BUT to help contribute towards your friends public image?

sorry if this is confusing… HAHA!

feel free to answer this instead: what’s your name? (LOL) —

my friends aren't weird so i don't usually have any need to defend them. while i would be biased towards my friends if it was anything i truly did not want to associate with, i would be open to changing my mind haha. if my friends need me to consistently defend them i'd rather just not be friends that's not why i make friends

also hi i'm finch :3

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