Have you ever broken up with someone you still loved?
I feel like my heart broke before it could feel what love is
I would if they didn’t love me back
Yup. Couple of times tbh.
Why? And do you still love them?
Wasn't going anywhere (LDR) and another was just from the stress of having to manage their paranoia (tried like 50 times, but my sanity was more important).
And no, I don't love them anymore. I will always root for my exes to move on an be happy - but it takes a lot for me to love someone.
Not romantically, but was forced to stop being friends with someone I still care about.
That's a long story that won't fit In the comment character limit, but I posted about it over on tellonym.
Yes. Twice. My life seems to be full with heartbreaking events compared to others?
If it helps, I'm usually on the other end - dumped by someone who professes their love for me
Why did you break up with them? And are you still in lobe with them?
Sean - what was their explanation ?
once it was about wanting different things - mostly kids, another time I think her parents arm-twisted her because they were paying for her school
@Shannon - I did break up with a woman I loved because she could not get rid of the law and order relationship with her parents.
Her parents were members of a zealot cult and had their teeth deeply into their daughters mind and flesh. I was neither sane nor pleasant.
I'm sorry Kate 😢 My lady was the daughter of Japanese immigrants and they did want their daughter lowering herself with the likes of me
I found asian US immigrants to be often obviously hardcore socially racist. Which they suffered from often in their country of origin.
The worst are the ones who achieved modest wealth in the US and now feel to be entitled to the higher ranks of society and look down in a racist manner upon
anybody else including, but not exclusively, of colour.
Yeah, that sounds exactly like what happened.
It is so standard that it found its way into telly scripts of shows as a social habit of Asian immigrants.
Nope, can't say that I have
Yes. Didn’t want to hurt him.
Why would you hurt him? And do you still love him?
Because I needed to experience more of life on my own. Yes, I still love him. I’m married to him.
Are you going through divorce then?
No. This was several years before we were married. I was really young. 19 or 20.
He’s my first and only love. We have quite a few things in common but we are also quite different.