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My Little Flower · 11mo

Hi Lan, this is me (no need to ask if I'm the one who sent you this message because I'm pretty embarrassed). You know that right now I'm in the friendzone, or what we call the brother/sister zone, you get the idea. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? Just so you know, I'm not sure if I can fall for someone else again.

Hmm. You don't need to be embarrassed around me actually. Honestly speaking, if I were on your shoes I would make a barrier for myself. Barrier to restrict myself to fall deeper because I know that we're in the friendzone kind of situation. I mean, getting your hopes up for what? Sometimes we need to be stern for ourselves in these matters. Instead, I will try to make a peace with myself by opening up myself to a new friendship with new people. Love is a complicated thing, I know. That's why we need to let it flow without putting any force on it. Something that is meant to be yours, will be yours eventually. Chin's up, buddy. Heal first. Don't rush. Make sure you are ready to love again before starting to love again.

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