not to sound rude but the way u guys say “tell them to stop acting gay then” is just feeding into stereotypes i’m a queer guy myself and it gets so exhausting when people can’t let guys be friends without going “haha gay” even if the two were queer that doesn’t mean they have to date queer guys can be friends without being attracted to each other. idk my point is kpop stans especially shippers love to push certain stereotypes on men when it comes to queerness and it’s just genuinely uncomfortable and looks more fetishizing if anything