Arthur · 9 answers · 11mo

Let's say you have a day off on Valentine's day. Is 12 days enough time to find someone to spend it together?

Some folks could pull it off. I don't love that as a priority, but I guess you gotta try things out sometimes to realize you've had more fun sleeping.

Depends on your environment. When you are happy to find a valentine during the course of a couple of days you should consider yourself lucky. I think I will give Mrs. Fox an invitation to visit me and maybe she'll agree and be my valentine for the week. However I think enjoying her presence, talk, smiles and hugs and kisses is already a big gift. She doesn't need to try to be a valentine. Instead try to stop me from biting her neck.

Why are we programmed to think that we NEED to find someone? Times are a changing. We no longer need another person to survive.

I think so, in theory! It doesn't have to be a long-term relationship - even if it's just one date, I think you can easily find someone online or in a local place where singles hang out.

It's known that the more you look for someone, the less you're gonna find them lol

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