I will be patiently telling them about how it will just consume them (mentally and physically), I know it’s going to be hard but I will always support them, but I will blatantly tell them, “I don’t have all the time in the world, sometimes I won’t be there for you when you hit bottom rock, and even I am here, I can be very consumed to listen your progress.” And I will also tell them they know what they should do but they follow what they want, and it’s not what’s the best for them. I’m not the sugarcoating, ‘you’ll be fine’ type of friend, I will tell them the reality and how it will crush them if they keep being irrational for hurting themselves by talking to the ex who gained them nothing but pain.

I apologize for taking so long to respond to this question, as I am still trying to process it myself. In my opinion, being in a toxic environment is unbearable. It feels like being trapped in a bubble where you cannot escape. However, I remember the phrase "you don't owe anything to anyone," and I believe that it is important to get rid of toxic people, especially if they do not support your self growth. Staying in such an environment will only make you feel small, so I would do my best to find a way out of it. This could involve doing well in school, getting a proper job, and leaving. Breaking the chain is crucial, and it is important to remember that your well-being comes first. If you are one of my mutuals, feel free to chat with me if you need support.