✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 1 answer · 21d
hi guys am i being stupid???? but i was just talking with another tfem and i mentioned i was intersex and they said "REALLY? THATS SO COOL!" and i talked about my experience with finding out and how i was raised as a woman bc they didnt find out during birth and they went "oh, so youre considered a woman?" and idk it kinda made me feel weird as i dont wanna be seen as one as... yk... im intersex.... like the disappointment or smthing made me feel rlly weird about myself and my experience as a tfem sob.
i think that person is a little odd... why r they disappointed... like yeah ok someone was raised a woman but like. at a certain point, the way you were raised as a certain gender wouldn't have fit how you perceived ur own gender?? like you can hate being raised as a woman because the way being a woman was for you at the time was hell for you. and you disconnect from it. then you rediscover yourself and find that "wait being a woman isn't just x, y, z... it can be awesome". smth smth reclaiming feminitity smth smth... i hope that made sense sorry for the rant 💀
