Pandy · 6 answers · 3y

What was the latest thing that made you realise someone you called a friend isn't a friend anymore?

The fact that we just drifted apart over time. It was probably my fault. I found being social so draining and I can imagine how friendship with me could feel one-sided a lot of the time, because I was never the one who made the effort to arrange to hang out and do stuff. It wasn't that I didn't like them, but most of the time I just didn't feel up to it. I don't resent any of my former friends for losing touch with me because I can see it from their point of view

He was talking about how another friend of mine didn't want to talk to me anymore because I started getting SSI, and said something about how he wasn't going to talk to me much longer either.

Their behaviour. It's not a single thing but a whole. Basically lack of interest in ME or what's happening in my life

Our dynamic changed once I wasn't providing them with something they benefited from anymore.

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