haha yeah, true, life is ironic like that. the great teacher. :)

dry cough

I know this is gonna sound disgusting but it worked for me. Get an onion an cut it in halves. You have to put them on your night table while you sleep.

Or in a place close to you.

Have you visited the doctor? Are you taking meds?

I didn't go to a doctor and i'm not taking meds. It got better but it doesn't go away completly yet. Ecspecially at night i have to cough

If it’s a night time cough, I’m thinking you might have some allergies. If this isn’t typical for you, go see the doctor. You might need a little help to get

rid of the cough. Maybe some nasal spray/antihistamines? ,

🤗

Old scars sometimes open under the inner pressure of long boiling suffering even when an angel puts their finger on them.

.. you are not responsible for the shitty treatment some humans regard as fair when dealing with you. Also you are not to blame to be unable to fly like a bird.

Some cultures make this a fucking habit to let people blame themselves for not being able to look like a butterfly, to act like an angel or swallow all the shit

shoved down ones throat. And sure they say it is your fault when you do not stop them shoving shit down your throat.

And when you start defending yourself it is your fault to act in aggressive ways. And sure it is your fault to be a woman, a person with a tender soul and such.

You must feel happy since any other feeling is a sign of disrespect for the culture that does oh so much for you.

When a holy priest fucks your kid or yourself in school you must kneel and thank the lord for so much attention and beg becoming worthy for so much attention!

Stop blaming yourself for all the shit others do.

I don't feel responsible of others shitty behavior. I'm only responsible of my actions and decisions.

It took me like 40 years to realize that I shouldn't blame myself for anything bad that happened in my life. Neither about how other treated me (as you said)

But what about my attitude? How do I choose to deal with things? Can i control that?

haha! Sorta half-assed control. You might not automatically treat a horrible person in your most charming or even respectful way

and also you will by accident be not so nice to ones who deserve your best. But you can try to.

You're not! No way.

Some for me!

*same, lol

From all the things we could have in common, I'm not happy about this one being one of them

I sometimes think it is the fate of souls with scars to remember hell.

Maybe a date request in disguise?

I dont know but it was very disrespectful

Men are sometimes very inexperienced in such cases. And when they want to be confident and not clumsy they often act almost rude.

But I suspect when it was brought forward in a disrespectful way it might have been a thing about power. To treat a woman in a way to show her inferiority?