Their behaviour. It's not a single thing but a whole. Basically lack of interest in ME or what's happening in my life
Can't you just steer the conversation to have them chat about you?
Yes, ofc. But that's not how it works for me. I don't want to do that bc I want genuine interest... Not the one that I have to be leading where I want.
Or I'd like. I don't know... I have my concept of friendship well defined and if someone is just only interested in the shallow stuff and they don't care much
About knowing who I am... I don't consider it a friend. Those are acquaintances and you can meet them everywhere.
*knowing who I am regarding on my life and what's happening in it.
Is this an IRL friend or an online one? As if it online it may be a matter of politeness.
Politeness? To check in on someone is rude or sth?
Even more when you know they have some kind of worry or shit going on?
Well its escapism. Sometimes people don't want to talk about their problems, ya know? Like say I'm one of these people, I normally wait to someone brings it up.
You can always ask.. And if the person doesn't want to talk about it, they will tell you. Don't you think?
I guess so :) Like when you mentioned your party I was excited and checked in! Would be nice to know how you've been! Btw have you seen my nice answer about u?
https://retrospring.net/Andy literally my top answer you donut :p
Oh. Thanks for the compliment