What do you think about raising kids without rules? https://youtu.be/OJlDfgi094w
I think these experiments were done excessively during the 70s ? I expect a result similar to what you get when you have a group of adults without rules. You might get a bully dominated group that causes the decent individuals to suffer and the idiots to strive.
I didn’t watch the video, but I think whatever rules you want to set up, you must be willing to follow through. And if there are no rules, you should be prepared to accept all and any consequences. I know for my own sanity, I need rules for my child. But I try to set up most rules based on safety. I’m not ok with him throwing things in the house, but I’m ok with him being loud. And then there are rules that make my life easier. Like, no writing on the walls. I ain’t cleaning that shit!!
Brilliant. In Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch, God says to give children as much freedom as possible, and that makes sense to me, so I'm all for it. People just think it's a good idea to preside over their children in everything because they're plebeians, it seems like a good idea to people who don't really challenge their first, easy impressions/reactions. And school is child abuse. Maybe a limited number of rules is necessary though, for example, if you live near or go near streets where cars drive by quickly you might have to tell them to stay out of the road, at least at a very young age. And, depending on where you live, not to get into cars with strangers, etc. etc.
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