Merida · 8 answers · 2y

Does self confidence (in others) scare?

To me this is an attractive feature. Confidence for me is sexy. But I see that other people sense this as a highly unwelcome feature. Especially with women. A guy has to be confident and tall and a girl has to be shy and small. So some women fake the shy and small and non-confident and some guys fake the tall and confident sharky character. However most humans possess both features.

Self-confidence is sexy tbh. If people are terrified of other peoples successes - they need to take a chill pill.

No, not usually. Maybe once in a long while I feel threatened because I'm not the most powerful person in the room and I'm not sure how to deal with that scenario.

Only when it’s the over the top/ I can do anything/I’m never wrong kind of misguided self confidence.

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