yes the lady at the taqueria, she believes in me! Hey I want to call her something affectionate, like how she calls me mijo but I'm not what's appropriate I need to ponder and maybe Google this some

Probably not. I am supported but not without limits. You cannot expect your girlfriend to encourage you leaving her and find a nicer, better version of herself. Or doing this vice versa.

My husband.

Honestly, no

Yes, you.