LaDamaX · 10 answers · 4y

How long does it take you when you starting seeing someone/dating before you start confiding in them w personal matters?

I’m not the confiding personal matters type. I won’t tell you anything. Don’t take it personally.

I don't date a person unless we know each other fairly well. I can't date people I don't really know. I'm not attracted to strangers, no matter how attractive they may be.

Not super long, I'm not much of a talker when it comes to that kind of stuff anyway so no matter how comfortable I am I won't have a whole lot to say

I don't remember that ever being an issue with me. Confiding or not confiding. I don't remember confiding about particularly personal matters, but it's not like I was reserved about it.. I think I just didn't have any personal matters. I guess I've never had much of a life to talk about. =P

Most tell me about themselves on a first meet. I ask few questions to spark conversation

not too early on but pretty early. i find sharing some of my truma earns me sympathy points:)

It doesn't take that long, I tend to attach pretty quickly, not that you'd ever know. I will tell you my secrets just don't go 😭

With a couple of them I never have bc I just didn't feel that connection. Otherwise it comes out fairly early, within a month or two

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