OK so there's a fella at work, not really a bad guy, but he has what the kids call 'no game' and he weirds out the ladies a bit...anyway he has become fixated on white women (he's Indian) and badly wants a white girlfriend. I'm sitting at a desk working on things and he stands in front of me and asks for help, without looking up and in my oblivious tone I say, maybe you should just go talk to one of them, and he leaves. It wasn't instant, but about two minutes after I said that I realized what a disaster him approaching one of them would be...I get up and stick my head out of the door and sure enough, he's cornered some poor girl and while they are too far away to hear, the body language was not looking good... so I felt obligated to go rescue her and now I feel like I own this whole situation and actually have to try and coach this guy to try to fix things, he's really gotta shake this white woman thing and while it's fine to have a preference he's completely bonkers about it and I'll wager women can sniff that out immediately, not that he really hides it as far as I can tell , anyway the point here is that I'm oblivious and dumb and I wish I weren't involved and need out of this, help pls