🌺 AnayaOhNo asked 7 months ago

💋 opposites attract? Or is it better to share more in common that not?

🌺 AnayaOhNo

💋 opposites attract? Or is it better to share more in common that not?

Opposites is OK as long as you both share the same views in the important things

Opposites only attract when there is a common basis of basics me thinks.

I believe it can go either way, because I know people who married another version of themselves

In my experience it depends how opposite your are. None of my opposite attracts have ever worked out and they have all been red flags and I hadn't notice untill they became pyschially abusive in the realtionship.

The 2 men I had something in common with is my boyfriend now and the only ex I would say hello how are you walking down the street.

But that is from my experience.

Exactly what Karen's Boyfriend said.

opposite sex seems to be one of the few things where that applies so much.

I'd rather someone significantly different from me - just seems more fun and gives more opportunities to improve myself.

I think you’d probably have to have something in common at the very least.

It's complicated. People are so deep that common and different characteristics may be good or bad, it depends on many factors

It's more like parallel realities attract.