Is there a polite way to tell somebody very, very thin, to better gain weight? How would you do it, if it was a friends friend for example?
I don't tell them. I get to know them better. Anorexia or Bulimia and or some other disease could be plaguing them. 1 huge example is my aunt. She's so.....so....so..... thin you'd think she's not trying but she can't eat whatever she wants. There is something wrong with her medically and she gets allergic reactions to many foods. She does try to be healthy it's just difficult 😔 she is so sweet. I know it's easy to judge anyone. It's tough seeing someone you care for struggle with anything and you not have the solution to it.
I suppose I let their body tell them. And if they tell me that they feel frail or weak on any other weight related symptom I just wont be like 'QUEEN YOUR BODY IS PERFECT', and just be real with them and advise they talk to a doctor about it. I wont call them too fat or too thin, but I will make it clear that chronic health issues take a lot away from a life.
Why should I tell them to gain weight? Maybe it's their constitution. Or maybe they're going thru a health issue. Before recommending anyone about losing or gaining weight, you better know what's the real cause behind the problem.. People are completely wrong when they think it's all about food. It's not. It can also be genetics or any other issues/diseases. And many times it involves the mind. And its not that easy. Whenever someone makes a comment about someone else's weight...its not helping. Maybe it's making it worse. Those people have mirrors in their houses. And also most of them know they have an issue but it's not that easy to control and you telling them is not Gonna make it easier. Just saying
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