Wasserpistole · 9 answers · 3y

Is there a polite way to tell somebody very, very thin, to better gain weight? How would you do it, if it was a friends friend for example?

I don't tell them. I get to know them better. Anorexia or Bulimia and or some other disease could be plaguing them. 1 huge example is my aunt. She's so.....so....so..... thin you'd think she's not trying but she can't eat whatever she wants. There is something wrong with her medically and she gets allergic reactions to many foods. She does try to be healthy it's just difficult 😔 she is so sweet. I know it's easy to judge anyone. It's tough seeing someone you care for struggle with anything and you not have the solution to it.

I'm sure they already know they're too thin and get a lot of flack for it so there's no point.

I suppose I let their body tell them. And if they tell me that they feel frail or weak on any other weight related symptom I just wont be like 'QUEEN YOUR BODY IS PERFECT', and just be real with them and advise they talk to a doctor about it. I wont call them too fat or too thin, but I will make it clear that chronic health issues take a lot away from a life.

I would never fuck with people about their weight, if they are happy I'm leaving them that way, if they want help from me with their weight, I'm happy to try and help, but it will not be unsolicited

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