Arman · 12 answers · 3y

Suppose you adopted a baby but after some time the biological parent[s] appear at your door and ask you to give the baby back to them. What would you do?

This actually happened to my parents. My biological parents were a horse and Jim Rash. Once they met me they didn't want me back, so it kind of all settled itself. Hopefully something like that would happen. If not then I guess I would just be like, "not without my child" and ask a law prsn what to do next.

I'll ask them why they changed and how the situation is different now.
If it's not on a whim and they got everything in order I might give the baby back.

Say no. They have no legal right to the baby they gave away, but if they had a good enough reason for wanting to be with them, I'd workout some kind of shared custody.

My only question is are they fit to care for the baby? As in did the state take their child because of drug or violence issues? I understand anyone can love and want a baby but not everyone is well and prepared to take that responsibility. There has to be a background check. I'm all for a biological parents raising their own child. I just wouldn't want that child being in a situation that could have been avoided. A circumstance that could seriously scar them and change their well being. I would do as this couple and fight legally for the best interest of the child's well being >https://youtu.be/HFvSAngQZ_o

How old is the baby? How long has it been in my care? DNA test? Why did they give up the baby? I’d have a lot of questions for these individuals.

Phone my solicitor. Adoption is a complicated legal process, you can’t just demand your child back and forget it ever happened.

My first thought was I'd be torn, I'd hate to say no to them but I might be attached to the baby already, and they have no right to it. But.. my second thought is, most people make horrible parents, so they probably would too, so I'd just say no.

I would not adopt a baby in the first place since I have no time, no talent and no nerves to care for a toddler. And I know what I'm talking about. I had to do baby care when I worked as a nurse. I can handle a child, but it is tough work for me and Ifeel not up to that.

Option 1. Settle with payment together with an agreement sign before a lawyer. Option 2. If option 1 no deal then would become a court case.Settle this matter in court of law

I will install a hidden camera in their crib and if they treat my son badly, I am going to grill them via law.

We play rock paper scissors for them of course... Nah really I guess I'm gonna say nah I'm good and immediately go lawyer shopping

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