The cousin who sexually molested me as a teen. It took me years to be able to even mention it to my family. At family gatherings , I'd feel completely uncomfortable and would not go off by myself concerned I might run into them. Ever since the incident it was difficult being in a room by myself with any guy. Today few people know this about me. I don't tell other relatives because somehow I want it put in the past. What I did come to find out it wasn't the only time they molested someone. One of my female cousin as a child was touched inappropriately. She confessed this to me because as a teen she was like a sister to me and idk who else to talk to.