Pros - Having a confidant (e), not being single and lonely, sex sex sex, love

Cons - Waste of your time, money and efforts if the love was never real. Drama, heartbreak, pettiness from either or both parties etc

You risk great pain when it fails. / You feel love in your heart and that can be very nice.

for me the pros and cons are the same thing: You're never alone. some women i'm like, .Damn girl don't you have friends? go to the mall or something:)

I guess last minute invitations become a committee decision instead of shrugging and putting on a coat. But even that isn't necessarily a 'con' ... I guess it's about perspective and whatnot.

To me the biggest pro is the support - just having someone that has your back through it all, ngl that's amazing

Cons: compromise, addition drama, additional costs Pros: Companionship, sex and people stop bothering you about being with someone.