there are no dumb questions! i think it's great that people are so curious, it makes me so happy!! I've given a good amount of thought to who phoebe's parents are so here's some basic descriptions...
phoebe's mom is a poodle and looks like an older version of phoebe, but with much longer and thicker+curlier hair that she usually wears down. she likes to doll up and do her hair, but often can't due to lack of time, so she does the bare minimum before a day of work (most days) and cuts her losses. she got a little curvier due to her pregnancy with phoebe, but since she had to work for most of the pregnancy and after, she lost a lot of that weight again pretty quickly.
phoebe's dad is a labradoodle who is just a little lighter brown than phoebe with slightly thinner and looser curls than her that he keeps shaved close to his head and ears. he's wirey with a bit of a beer belly, which gets much worse after phoebe goes missing.
both parents are shorter than katie, though only by a few inches each, and phoebe's mom is the shortest of the three.
that's everything about them physically, i could keep going on and on about them though. which is funny cause phoebe won't see either of them again until she's an adult herself. thanks for the question!!

what a question, thanks for reaching out^^!! unfortunately don't think it's something katie would particularly pursue, if anything i can see her putting a camera in the potty or something similar that wouldn't require phoebe's knowing partipation. if anyone wanted to commission me for some katie/phoebe scat action, though, i could definitely see ways for her to make that happen! katie's totally the type to fantasize about phoebe using her face as a toilet, and in her more sadistic moments, using phoebe as a toilet. Again, probably nothing she'd pursue that hard unless phoebe started showing interest, which would be an interesting turn for her at such a young age 😅

Sorry if that's not the answer you were hoping for, but thank you for the ask!

great question, thanks for asking^^! so as far as phoebe is concerned, she’s living the perfect lesbian dream with her hot older girlfriend, and katie works to maintain that illusion with constant gift giving and affection. katie pays close attention when phoebe doesn’t like something and tries to keep things to what she “wants,” figuring out ways to take advantage of her in ways that make phoebe think she’s having fun and discovering new things. the situation doesn’t start feeling off to phoebe for quite some time(years) for that reason. I’ll definitely explore phoebe’s side of things as time goes on, cause she’d be living in that apartment for the better half of her life at a certain point. There will eventually be opportunities for her to leave but she won’t end up taking them for various reasons, a big one being her love for katie, and i’m excited to tell that part of their story one day 🫶 thanks again for the ask, i appreciate the message!!