Hello anon, thank you for your ask, although I just updated my profile with my current preferred name so getting this so soon is a little off to me.
His name is Laci, with no E at the end of his name unlike mine. His name is also pronounced as 'Law-tsee', and his is a cultural name. Mine is pronounced as 'Lay-see', and my name is a different spelling of the pre-existing name Lacey.
I will use whatever name I please. I've been using this name on-and-off before I even knew of him. I will not let some teenage boy on the internet prevent me from using a name I am comfortable with. He has no power over me anymore as he once did, so I will be using this name whether anyone likes it or not (≧◡≦)
Also, instead of inferring that a victim of grooming didn't actually get groomed, and you attack them over their own identity and discovered independence and happiness, I hope you find some peace and realize it is never that serious 🩷 Best of luck to you