You're honestly doing really good for yourself recently, people don't understand how much effort you've put into making your life the best it can be. Sure, it's not ideal or glamorous, but it's YOUR life you've built. Especially after everything traumatic that happened to you this year. People need to give you some fucking credit, because after hearing what you went through with your fucked up ex and all the bullshit with your lung? Dude. How are you still BREATHING!? I would have buckled under the pressure, but here you are!! You're doing so good and I'm so proud!! You have a job lined up, you seem to have a really good and suitable therapist now, you're in a wonderful polyamorous relationship. You're genuinely doing so, so good! Look at you! You go, bun!