Azem..... while they think they want to be parents (prior to the WOL going back during EDW and the stuff that happens with Hermes) , Azem was with child and ended up miscarrying it before they returned to Elpis

Azem would think they could be good parents for a child, but they.... aren't good with emotions, they want to be a good and kind person but ultimately their lack of understanding makes it where they cannot understand certain things, they're selfish in a way.

Kinda like an absent mother with eternal postpartum depression.... never being able to truly connect with their child....

Hermes at least with how he treats Meteion at least would connect with the child but i think the feelings he would get from azems inability to connect would make it hard on him mentally ....