nyeheheh! little did you know! ibara didn't hate the feminine aspect, but rather the fact crossdressing was used as a punishment to embarrass men. that's exactly the reason why ibara didn't want to do bogie time, it had outdated humor and all around scummy. also he hated being hit on!
he even hoped hajime would teach him the art of being cute in the same story, and wears a queen of hearts outfit with heels!! ibara does not gaf!!!!!!!!
even if ibara WAS protective of his masculinity, pls remember that doesn't mean it's morally corrupt to hit him with the girl beam. 😋 butch realness
(also i hc almost every enstars character to be a woman bc im lesbian, i just happen to like adam most)