I think this is a ☆me☆ question because you said IRL, but feel free to yell at me if I should have drawn the bunny answering it. I think I'm supposed to just answer this directly so it's not confusing...?
Anyway, I am and I'm not. It's complicated. Everything Eben had said about this has been essentially what I think with some slight tweeking here and there for flavor. I IRL have really gained about 35 lbs since last December, I was 155 now I'm almost 190. I do like the idea of gaining in real life, in fact weight gain and weight gain related content is really all I do like, but I have a hard time seeing myself doing it without being prompted by someone else. Sometimes I really do get into the idea so much that I'll bindge eat irl. I don't really have any interest in TRYING to gain weight, though. I don't like the dynamic. Still, I'm way too... reclusive(?) shy(?) timid(?) cowardly(?) (There's a reason I keep putting sop in my twitter handles lol) to try and find a partner for something like that. I'll probably just keep gaining passively due to my disinterest in exercise until my appetite becomes too much for my wallet.
In conclusion, Eben is my fursona. Most of, if not all, of the stuff I answer in the questions is just put-on exaggeration of my own thoughts and experiences. I'm sorry if that's been a little confusing. It's really embarrassing trying to consistently use first person pronouns for this stuff.