Your feelings are correct. He also has daddy issues galore. I've already gone over his and Fire's relationship so there's that.
I think whether or not he tops completely depends on the other cat's personality. Like he topped Squilf until something clicked in her head and she decided she should be on top.
But after the whole secret reveal thing he stopped listening to her for a long time. I feel like he also fucked Leafpool, turned her into his slut just to get back at Squilf. Maybe he he told her he was gonna his own kits one way or another. It was noncon, but I mean who wasn't fucking Leafpool after she got demoted.
He also topped Hawkfrost up until his death.
He, like all Tigerclones, inherited his dad's dick. Goldenflower, Hawkfrost, and Darkstripe have both taken advantage of this.
He was very into his daughter, Hollyleaf.