Yes. You think Fire do those things to their kits and get away with his balls intact if Sand didn't approve? Ha.

She likes to watch occasionally, but she's not as into them as Fire is when they're kits and she gets more interested when they start... ahem... developing into grown she-cats. In her defense, they came to her when they hit their first heats. What is a mother to do?

She's the Milf to Fire's Dilf. Fire takes em when they're young apprentices, Sand grabs em when they're older apprentices --> young warriors. Difference is Sand waits for consent. Or I guess "consent" considering she does a little grooming before they get to the age she wants them at and she's the leader's wife so how much can you really say no to her.