I know these are just lyrics, but that's how I've always seen it 🐰, i believe it comes naturally, and it's not love if it's forced. many people search for love or a relationship for the sake of having one... its not my business.. but I don't approve of it.. you don't go looking for someone just to love them, you learn to love someone when they start meaning so much to you every wonderful thing about them starts to shine... that's how I see it...