Anonymous · 8mo
sorry if this is too personal, but how did you decide you're non sharing? im also a yume (a moot but im not yume on main so I dont interact much) and am considering it...
It's not too personal :)
For the first time, it was when I started to feel uncomfortable with seeing other yumeships with one of my yumes, especially art with them. So decided to set some boundaries for my own comfort.
Right now, I usually start with non-sharing status for new yumes (unless I have moots I'm comfortable sharing with), then loosen boundaries over time if I feel no longer anxious about seeing ships of any of my yumes.
