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Chubby Chaser · 7mo

How do you open up to people about having the sorts of kinks you have? I've been struggling with it for years, and every time I feel close to ready, something comes along to remind me that the outside world finds it weird and I grow cagey over it again.

I'm sorry if this question is a bit more serious than you usually get. You don't need to answer it, I was just told by a friend to ask you for advice

Well, I'd say approach it as something more normal. You don't need to share specifics, but rather than saying you're into someone 700lbs, you can just leave it that you like bigger people. Broaching any subject piece by piece is normal in any relationship!

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