I NEVER said it wasn't. All I meant was that it doesnt have to be problematic in order for the comment to be UNCOMFORTABLE. I will not be talking about this any further. The whole point of my post was that people don't need to argue about what is or isn't problematic. Because it is useless, you never need a reason to be uncomfortable. I do not promote sexual assault, I do not claim for it to be okay. I obviously didn't get my point across correctly which in turn upset people, that was never my intention.