I don't think ALL of the rude asks are being rude on purpose, some may be worried since (myself included) were told 2 weeks ago (maybe even more) that ems/emails would be sent out, but never were. And I know life gets busy and stuff and you're only one person and you have your own personal life to deal with, however if you have stuff that NEEDS to be done before your packing/calculating EMS/trips to go on, maybe don't say a date/time that you cannot guarantee what you said you would have done. (1/)