Hello, sender. First and foremost, the lack of context in this statement is something that honestly makes me confused. But if it is in accordance to what I have in mind, just a brief assumption—there's no urgency to provide me with this kind of information. It's not my place to gain knowledge about someone's relationship, let alone treating it as a competition, like you stated in your statement. I personally think it's not ethical to throw around this kind of detail. One thing that should be emphasized is the fact that you're also unaware what I've been through as well. I hope you understand the point of my answer.