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Anon · 1y

I want to make dead dove stuff but I have a very big fear of getting doxxed by antis. I have seen it online and it’s terrifying to think that someone one day could just be out for me bc of fiction and show my friends and family or even workplace, and just straight up ruin my life for their “benefit”.

Ok sorry I meant to answer this earlier (I actually typed a whole thing and then accidentally refreshed the page and had to take a nap after).

Yeah it's real upsetting. It's almost worse given they almost exclusively target queer creators and not, idk, any execs on Call of Duty or marvel movie producers all getting them pentagon pouches. IDK as someone raised by an antivaxx new age conspiracy-brained chronic cult hopper, it's all too familiar to me. More cult shit. Targeting stupid shit so they feel a modicum of control.

But I honestly felt the same way, and was really paranoid about it until last year when I started my meds lol.

I do my best to keep everything separated, I'm largely exclusively logged into my NSFW stuff on a single device, use separate emails/discord and 2FA and VPN, long jumbled passwords, and generally use a lot of fake info whenever I publicly reference my life, try not to tweet abt where i am or are going, don't follow anyone I know IRL unless they're also doing all that. Stuff I've learned from sex workers.

Best advice I got is block em, ghost any friends you have that are like that, and post as anonymously as you can. Be free. I wanna say It's definitely worth it my mental health has improved tremendously since I started posting anything I wanted. TBF tho my life is pretty rock bottom, I'm too disabled to handle enough work to survive alone so I rely on others for a lot as is and don't have much more to lose to begin with since I'm estranged anyway. Kinda what pushed me to just fuck it and do it.

Anyway buproprion and weed baby Lesgo 🌿💊

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