It’s hard to explain but basically you can be a lesbian but still find men attractive. Being a lesbian (to what I’ve read) mainly has to do with whether or not you are happy in a relationship with men. I’ve been in multiple relationships with men and I’ve always been unhappy. Compared to women, I am extremely happy and comfortable doing things with them! Unlike men.

Not to mention, I mainly simp over fictional men or men I can’t have (AKA actors) and that doesn’t affect me being lesbian at all. I can still find men attractive but I am not happy dating them nor am I comfortable. I hope this makes sense hhh