Hard to say, because me with myself a year ago made the best decisions she could, given her circumstances, and didn't really miscalculate anything with where I would be. I would trust her all over again. If anything, I feel like I'm the one failing her.

Around this time, she knew that she didn't have a lot of time left with her partner and was so busy hurting. I think if anything, I would just comfort her, grieve with her, and let her know that everything would be okay. That it would hurt, but just admire how strong she is and how much that strength is pushing through so much to grow and be happy, that she just has to keep enduring, knowing how much she is tired of fighting to survive.

I suppose the less philisophical but probably far more helpful would be giving her the winning lottery numbers.