dude i fully believe you are taking care of yourself and in control of the situation and im not here to shame you or try and moralize you or something but like from a place of genuine concern: i was in a (much more sketchy and obviously terrible!) situation when i was a year younger than you with a 24y/o and.. beware of getting too attached. it seems like he treats you well and is kind and respectful and I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy! (1/2)