Broadly speaking, no. Because I really pay attention to many things, even the smallest things I pay attention to. Because for me the word love is not just something that can be expressed easily. I pay attention by how they think, solves problems, regulates an emotion and how they responds to things. Just being comfortable, in my opinion, is not enough because humans have different characteristics that we must know before starting anything. It's better for you to find out first before experiencing an unpleasant incident. (A traumatic past experience)