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Deon. · 8 answers · 6mo

What impression do you think you give when you first meet someone?

I tried my best to show a cheerful and enthusiastic side so as not to make things awkward for each other.

I have various answers to this. Most of the people I’ve met said I look hard to approach, but some of them also said I’m a warm person. And the others said I’m a polite person. Then, I wanna ask you, what’s your first impression of me?

I want someone sees me as a girl named Bella who is pretty, spreading a positivity and such a warm person for them to lean on and a good listener when I am a professional yapper.

I remember someone saying that I looked scary but I hope that's not what everyone think of me when they first met me..

First, I'll make sure to listen more than ask and just respond to whatever he/she says. Second, I won't dive too deep into his/her personal stuff right away. I'll start with a light question and some casual talk. Third, I'll be cautious with my words so I don't accidentally upset him/her.

I think.. I give off an impression of warmth. I strive to make genuine connections by showing interest in the other person and actively listening to what they have to say. :]

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