There might be, but if there is I don't know it. I suspect that no one else really does either which is why we're all so careful about it.

I've made no secret about this being an alias and not linked to my main accounts. That's because I'm worried about bad actors working to destroy my life, but I still want to be able to talk about my feelings and maybe help someone understand us or even themselves in the process.

The best rule of thumb is if you're uncomfortable in a situation, get out. If someone is asking questions you're not comfortable answering, just don't answer.