Ohh hi bb ~😊💗 (thank u). Ur questions are so fun hehe >⁠.⁠<
1) my fav thing abt ynbn is probably the younger top and elder bottom dynamic haha 😭 and the fact that ynjn is so bold and flashy where sbn is all soft smiles and softie all over. The contrast is so ENDEARING💕
2) oh theres two of them! Strawberries and cigarettes (my favv) and my only one (most ynbn song everrrr)
3) hmmm... Ig runaway.. there's just smth abt it that speaks to me ... The lyrics especially... They js hit home
4) my dream ynbn fic to read would be a LONG LONG slowburn royalty au... Knight sbn and prince ynjn
And my dream ynbn fic to write would definitely be ynbn roomates to lovers I JUST LOVE THAT TROUPE TOO MUCH cause there's so many scenarios that can play out! 💗

Its stupid if im being real. Everyone is free to like what they like and have their own opinions. personal preferences are not facts—they are just individual viewpoints. In shared spaces, like fandoms, it's important to understand that no one's opinion is 'right' or 'wrong.' To maintain a positive environment, we should respect others' preferences and recognize that it's okay for people to enjoy different things. If something doesn't resonate with you, the simplest approach is to avoid it, rather than criticize it. Just because one is entitled to their opinion, doesn't automatically make it a fact. But no one is ready for such discussions.

I think ive talked about this before haha. It wasn't some grand revelation tbh. I'd always felt it for while. But the moment that really confirmed it was when I was with a girl who was going down on me. Instead of feeling any sort of pleasure, I just felt... nothing. I remember lying there, staring at the glow-in-the-dark stars on the ceiling, and counting them to pass the time LMFAO. It was like I was completely disconnected from what was happening. I wasn’t grossed out by her, but there was no spark, no excitement, nothing at all. Afterward, the disconnect felt so strong that I actually threw up. That was the moment it fully hit me—this kind of experience just wasn’t for me.
After that though, I felt soooo guilty. I felt like I’d let her down but she was the nicest person EVER. She didn’t make me feel ashamed or uncomfortable at all. Instead, she held me as I cried, comforting me even though it wasn’t the reaction she was probably expecting. She even ran me a warm bath with scented oils to help me relax and made brownies afterward. Id always be so so grateful to her.

I wouldn’t be upset or uncomfortable at all. I understand that just because don’t experience romantic attraction, that doesn’t mean others don’t have those feelings, and I fully respect and appreciate that. It’s important to me to honor the emotions of the people I care about. Just because I don’t feel the same way doesn’t mean their feelings aren’t real or important. I’m not the kind of person to invalidate someone’s emotions, especially when they’ve trusted me enough to be vulnerable. I know it takes a lot to confess those kinds of feelings. Our friendship wouldn’t be damaged or awkward because of it—in fact, I’d value the openness and trust we have. It’s about respecting each other’s experiences, and just because I can’t reciprocate in a romantic sense, that doesn’t mean I don’t deeply care about and value the person. In conclusion, id nurse them back to their feet with alot of hugs and sweet words 🩷

YES!! I actually enjoy intimacy and closeness, but I’m not comfortable with public displays of affection, and that’s linked to how I experience my sexuality as aroace. Since I don’t feel romantic or sexual attraction in the way many others do, PDA can feel out of place for me. it’s not something I naturally seek or feel the need to express. It’s definitely not that I dislike affection, but for me, intimate moments are better when they’re private and personal, where it’s more about the emotional connection than putting on a display. In public, it can feel performative or unnecessary, especially because I don’t connect to romance and attraction in the same way.
My comfort with intimacy is real, but it’s a kind of closeness that’s more about trust, understanding, and companionship, rather than the romantic or sexual aspects that come with typical PDA. So yeah I don’t mind being close to someone, but I prefer to keep those moments private and meaningful 🩷.

I wasn’t always comfortable with my sexuality tbh. it’s been a journey. I’ve had doubts, and sometimes I still do. There are moments when I wonder if my identity as aroace is influenced by things I’ve been through, like my gender dysphoria and the bullying I experienced. It’s hard not to question if those experiences shaped the way I feel about attraction and relationships. These thoughts can be really challenging, and they still come up from time to time. But over the years, I’ve learned to trust myself. I always find my way back to the understanding that this is who I am, even if it’s complicated. Pushing those doubts aside is part of my process of staying true to myself 🩷

Just because I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction, that doesn’t mean I find flirting or sexual conversations uncomfortable or repulsive. It's important to understand that being aromantic or asexual doesn’t mean I dislike or avoid romance or sexuality altogether—it just means I don’t personally feel those attractions. I can still enjoy banter, flirting, or conversations of a sexual nature if they're respectful and consensual. It’s more about my own feelings not aligning with the romantic or sexual aspects, but I can appreciate the dynamic and humor that can come with it. As long as it’s in good fun and boundaries are respected, I’m perfectly fine with it. BUT THAT'S JUST ME. Everyone has different boundaries, so its very important to communicate beforehand. Not all of us are wired the same way. 🩷