No apologies!! You are always welcome 🩵🩵 and depending on where you’re getting it/how big it is, they really are not bad at all. I recommend aquafor or some kind of petroleum jelly or tattoo post care gel for the first week, then lotion after that. But honestly, the internet is more helpful than I am for advice. Make sure you don’t go in on an empty stomach or low sleep tho, both will increase your chances of getting dizzy/lightheaded/passing out, but I’ve never had issues 🩵