Yes and yes. I like to be the muscular one in bed, so my partner can be almost any body type. I love being with a smaller guy, I think they’re really cute and it feels good to completely envelop them with my own body. Being with a bigger/fat guy is fun too, I love softness and bellies it feels really good to hug a guy with a lot of heft. I think more people ought to appreciate a wider array of bodies cause they’re all sexy in different ways.