lele 💗 · 3mo
Oh, It's the same with me (toxic relationships give me a strong trigger) i didn't really ask specifically about any trope, but i particularly wanted to comment on something. I've been writing for a short time and I'd really like to explore my stories (i only write about light bdsm) and is there something i wanted to write about but I'm really afraid of being judged or seen as weird? It's nothing like what you mentioned (like i said, i don't like those topics either) but I think I tried to explain my situation well. I'm just a little nervous about a lot of things and especially about this desire to explore kinks that I already read about and wanted to write about as well.
That's understandable! It can be daunting to write about things for the first time. Some advice I will give - make sure you fully research the kink before writing, not just going off of what you know from other fics. There are many bdsm themes that are often written wrong - e.g. choking (there should never be any pressure applied to the esophagus, only ever the arteries that supply blood to the neck to give the feeling of breathlessness). Feel free to pop me a dm if you have any questions that you don't feel comfortable asking here 💜
